When Should You Talk to Your Child About Sexuality and Safety
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By:
Lenah
As parents, we often wait for the “right time” to have the talk — but the truth is, conversations about sexuality and safety should start early and grow gradually as your child does.
From as early as age 2 to 5, begin by teaching your child the correct names for their body parts and that their private parts are private. This lays the foundation for body confidence and safety.
Around 6 to 9 years, expand the conversation to include boundaries, consent, and safe vs. unsafe touch. Let them know they can always tell you if something feels wrong — and they won’t be in trouble.
As they reach preteen and teen years, these talks should evolve to cover puberty, relationships, online safety, and emotional readiness. Keep the tone open and non-judgmental. Your child is more likely to come to you with questions when they know they’ll be heard, not shamed.
Talking about sexuality doesn’t take away their innocence — it protects it. You are their first teacher, and your voice can be the safest place they return to as they grow.