Views:83 | By: Lenah Let’s be honest—when someone truly wants you, it shouldn’t feel confusing. It shouldn’t leave you second-guessing texts, wondering where you stand, or asking your friends to help decode his mixed signals. If a man genuinely wants you, he makes it known—with both his words and his actions. Here’s how you can tell:

1. He says it out loud—clearly and intentionally.
He doesn’t leave you hanging on hints. He tells you directly that he likes you, wants to be with you, or isn’t here to play games. You don’t have to beg for clarity or try to read between the lines. A man who truly wants you will say so—because showing without saying can still leave room for doubt.

2. He follows through with action.
He doesn’t just talk—he shows up. He makes time for you, keeps his word, and prioritizes you consistently. You’re not an afterthought or a “maybe later”—you’re part of his life, and it shows in how he treats you day to day.

3. He’s curious about your inner world.
He wants to know more than your favorite color. He listens to your fears, your childhood stories, your goals and random thoughts. He asks questions that show he’s interested in who you really are—not just what you can give him.

4. He makes you feel emotionally safe.
You don’t feel judged or like you have to shrink yourself to be chosen. You’re allowed to be vulnerable, messy, strong, healing, growing—and he stays present through it all. You feel seen and accepted, not tolerated.

5. He doesn’t leave you guessing.
If you’re constantly trying to decode what he means, he may not be all in. A man who wants you brings peace and consistency. You know where you stand, not because you asked ten times—but because he made it clear without you having to.

6. He brings you into his world.
When someone sees you in their future, they start weaving you into their present. He introduces you to people who matter to him, shares parts of his day, his passions, and his routines. He’s not hiding you—he’s welcoming you.

You don’t have to convince the right person to choose you.
You don’t have to chase or perform or constantly wonder.
You just have to pay attention to how you feel—secure, cherished, and clear.
Because when a man really wants you, it won’t be complicated.
It will feel like truth. Like peace. Like home.