Views:385 | By: Lenah Most people don’t join cults because they’re weak or foolish.
They join because they’re hurting and searching — for healing, belonging, or answers.
Cults don’t come with red flags at first. They start with hope.
“You are chosen.”
“God has a plan for your life.”
“The world is dangerous, but we’re your family now.”
At first, it feels like home. Like truth.
But slowly, the control begins.

The Shift
You’re told to cut off friends, family, school.
You’re discouraged from asking questions.
You start fasting, giving more, isolating — all “in the name of obedience.”
You're told: “If you leave, you’re leaving God.”
Doubt becomes sin.
Fear becomes faith.
And your sense of self? Slowly disappears.

Why People Stay
Even when you feel something is wrong, you stay because:
You’ve sacrificed so much already.
You’re scared of what happens if you walk away.
You still believe… just not in the fear.
This is how people — even the strong, even the faithful — get trapped.

Truth You Should Know
Real faith does not silence you.
It doesn’t demand fear to prove loyalty.
It doesn’t isolate you or starve your body to “save your soul.”
You can love God and still say no to spiritual abuse.
You are not crazy. You are not weak.
And you’re allowed to leave — and still be loved.